If someone asks you how you met your spouse, how much detail would you be able to give? Could you describe where you were, what you were doing, how things played out?

Personally, I have always had a hard time with such questions because most of my relationships stemmed from friendships that developed into more along the way.

I've never really been able to celebrate dating anniversaries or anything like that for the same reason. I never really know when it goes from just friends to more than friends. I'm a huge advocate of "the conversation," and I have often found myself in something of a role reversal.

Him: You're cheating on me?
Me: Cheating? I didn't know we were in a relationship. We never had that discussion!

I know, I know. I'm horrible. I forget birthdays and stuff, too. If it's not on my calendar with an alarm set, you can forget about receiving a phone call or text message.

Check out this story, though. It's beautiful.

If you're not like me and actually pursued someone you found attractive without being friends first, how much detail can you give into how you met?